… is that all the things you cared about, did, showed me, loved to do were healthy things for me to learn and take with me on my life journey, until I meet you again.
Read story →Wellington County
We paddled across the lake together in unison
Caron: I miss you so much. You were my partner in life. We always laughed at the same things. We loved a glass of red wine together. We paddled across the lake in unison. I love you. Sister
Read story →I wish I was you
… is I wish I was you! So I could be at peace with my family too!
Read story →It was a gift to become your caregiver
I was so lucky to have my Dad for the sixty-nine years of my life — Dad — It was a gift to become your caregiver over the last year of your life. It gave my heart time to open across the bumpy borders of our life.
Read story →You taught many about connecting
Girlfriend. You’re at home dying and I’m here seeing others’ death perceptions and reflections. You taught many about connecting to others while they’re still here and about the importance of saying and expressing love before dying. I didn’t send those flowers. I won’t be sending those flowers
Read story →Yes, mom, I’ll see you soon
“See you soon” were my mom’s last words to me. And with that came the realization that at the end of every conversation or visit I need to leave a gracious “closure”. Life is too precious to have your last memory not be one of love &
Read story →She seemed so big, so divinely large
I spent the last six months of my mother’s life with her in a process of witnessing the layers of dying in a way now that I cherish as sacred and precious. Such a privilege to be able to be a part of such an enormous moment.
Read story →It’s like watching a monument crumble
1. You don’t really know how special it is to feel alive until you see a strong figure widdle away. It’s like watching a monument crumble very slowly; I miss ya grandpa… you always had a presence about you but your brain had a very big flaw.
Read story →I keep looking for you
To my wiener dog, Stallone You drove me crazy for 14 years Part of me died on the kitchen floor with you I keep looking for you Could not bear to bury you in the back yard since none of us will be there in a few
Read story →Your eyes widened
Dad, you lay in a hospice bed, restless, confused at most times, picking things in the air, fighting for breath as your lungs filled up — your eyes widened when your two youngest walked in the room. It took a moment of coughing and rambling – as
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