Creating space to pause, reflect and share experiences with dying and death

Caregiving

Caregiving

I met him when he was still well

I met him when he was still well

As a nurse for over 20 years I have cared for many people in many settings from birth to death. One client and his family always remain fresh in my memory. It was a palliative client and I met him when he was still well and was

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I slept on the floor beside her bed

I slept on the floor beside her bed

I was with my grandmother for the passing itself and for the couple weeks leading up to her death. I slept on the floor by her bed as my mother could have a break. I was sitting beside her when she took her last breath. All I

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Little things matter

Little things matter

My mother-in-law had been hospitalized for the last 4 months of her life due to a diagnosis of terminal stomach and bowel cancer.  She chose to die in a hospital to spare her elderly husband the burden of her care. On her last day, the family was

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I want to make a difference

I want to make a difference

I have been a part of many deaths I palliative care as well as multiple unexpected deaths. One resource still missing is grievance support for staff and family after death. I want to make a difference.

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I should have asked more

I should have asked more

I recently had the experience to assist my 51 year old sister-in-law on her final journey. Being a nurse profided me with the shells and knowledge to provide support and dicertion. What I was not totally prepared for was the difficult conversations between her, myself and children.

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It is about sharing your time

It is about sharing your time

Healing is not just about treating or resolving of a disease but instead it is about sharing your time and listening with intent to the person receiving care. And sometimes that healing also benefits the caregiver who provides care

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His passion was to teach

His passion was to teach

As a PSW, I cared for a gentleman who was quite the ‘academic’. He was proud about his personal care, which I performed quickly/quietly. His passion was to teach and he shared that his depression through the process of palliation was around the loss of his ability

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This is where she stayed

This is where she stayed

As an RN working at the hospital I was asked to head to the ICU department to bring a pt back to our palliative floor as the family had made the decision to take an EOL approach. I went with a college to bring our pt back

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It’s the strength

It’s the strength

It’s the stories that draw me to Palliative Care. It’s the truth of voices being hear It’s the universality It’s the strength It’s the connect to self, family & community It’s the tragedy, the loss It’s being a witness It’s carrying on the memories so no-one truly

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Bless us

Bless us

Pause. Reflect. Share. We who work in palliative care are going through one of the biggest & most challenging changes that I am likely to experience in my career… and that is MAiD. I am not an “object” or  – I believe ultimately, in autonomy & am

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