I lost my husband suddenly on October 27th 2016. Then my dad died November 24th 2016. My family has been in turmoil ever since. No matter how much I try I have someone angry and not speaking to me. I made the best decisions with the professional advice I was given. I do wish I had been told I could have got bereavement pay. I am now on my own and it sure would have helped. No one tells you about all the bills that are now your soul responsibility. Yesterday was my 36th wedding anniversary it was so sad and I missmy husband so much. I take one day at a time now.