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Not sure if one is harder than the other

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Not sure if one is harder than the other

Who do I write about? 1) The abrupt death of my husband 20 years ago? Or, 2) What I am going through now with the slow death from dementia of my sister?

Both are hard — not sure if one is harder than the other.

Not sure they or one should be.

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